I’d like to tell you that you are capable of achieving the things you want in your life. In every single thing you do, you are choosing a direction. You can make a decision today that propels you to the life you want and towards the healing you need.
I live in beautiful Falmouth, Cornwall England. I can walk on the beach, around a lake or in the woods each day if I choose. I am 46 years old. I’ve been a bit of a nomad, having lived in different parts of the UK. I traveled in my 20’s and worked 3 years in Australia. My parents are from Yorkshire where I was born. I have 2 older sisters and a brother and many nieces and nephews scattered around the globe. I don’t have children, always wanted dogs.
I was an online business owner for 7 years and had my own shop in retail fashion, I specialized in tailor-made latin dance shoes.
Prior to this, what job haven’t I done!
I want to show you-you shouldn’t be ashamed or afraid of your past or future failings or mistakes, those experiences shape us, have enabled us to learn and grow.
8 years ago my successful online business was booming. I was on top of the world in every way. Passionate about my work and dancing salsa 4 plus nights a week. I worked not more than 4 hours a day if that. It was a change from my 60-80 hour week working for Social Services assessing peoples needs, and only getting paid 37 hours.
I then entered into an exciting new relationship, it felt like a big adventure. He had 2 young children aged 3 and 5 years old, and a grown-up girl.
I had been living my dream in the country for 8 years until I moved to the City to be with him.
I had a business development plan and opened a shop in the city but couldn’t divide my time between being step mum, partner, my online shop, and life.
The relationship was difficult, he was controlling and cheated on me several times. I made a decision to sacrifice my own needs and closed the shop and wound down the business to save the relationship despite alarm bells going off, I felt I could help him change.
The relationship didn’t change I couldn’t rescue him, it wasn’t good for me or the family. I left a wreck with very little, to live in a caravan in Cornwall with my puppy Mila. I was depressed, alone, at rock bottom and couldn’t ask for help as I didn’t know how to, I had no strength, so that left me with no support. The only thing that got me out of bed was Mila my dog.
The pain of all those losses was horrendous, and his damaging words and lies echoed in my head, and still stay with me as a reminder that I never want to be treated like that again, and ensures that I surround myself with people who see my worth and respect me. I reflect on how good and different my life is today. When I left I was empty, felt guilty for leaving the children and ashamed that I had given up.
Sometimes our lives are completely shaken up and rearranged to relocate us to the place we were meant to be.
Now nearly 3 years on Mila has been a mum, she had 8 pups. I live in a shared rented house with supportive friends and rekindled my family relationships which were lost due to my relationship.
I remained self-employed this time as a Housekeeper/cleaner.
I felt unfulfilled
I frequently questioned myself about my lifestyle and searched for something that might change the way I felt. Why was life so hard I thought?
Friends, family, the news and social media all talk of scary global uncertainties and more and more we are moving to a digital economy.
With this in mind, I realized I needed to change.
What do I want?
I want financial freedom and peace of mind, the benefit of working the hours I choose. I’d like to have my own business but get some help from professionals that can teach and support me. I’d like a house with land to grow food, a view of the sea and in nature, I want to be able to do the things I want when I want to, I want a new camera to capture my memories and share my creative talent. I’d like to help others recognize their own potential and show them how they can make their dreams reality.
I know what it takes to run a business and let it go. I know how it feels to work so hard and make personal sacrifices for others and not reap the rewards. I know how it feels to be undervalued, to not be using my skills, wasting my potential, being used, going nowhere, not wanting to get up in the morning, being at rock bottom, not knowing how I’ll pay my rent.
If you are feeling any of these or many others I can list. You need to take a reality check.
Ask yourself the questions I did:
Delly’s lifestyle now.
SFM is showing me to see my potential, use disused skills, overcome obstacles especially the technical ones! I’m not great with computers but I work hard and motivated to learn. They have provided a supportive like-minded community, where you can trust, grow and believe again. I am finding my voice and discovering where I can help and be of value. I want to show you that you can create your own lifestyle.
It’s up to you, it’s your choice. You CAN do it. You can change your life.
Here is an opportunity to be part of a community that will help you achieve the freedom and benefits you want for Your Dream Lifestyle.
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Remember you choose the direction towards the life you want.
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